Ten Ways to get rid out the thoughts of him in my mind, and pretend (or trying to) look as a normal and happy girl.
1. Go shopping
That's why Charles and Keith are for, because they are women best friends.
Every girl who has been in broken hearted must know how to please herself in this way.
2. Chocolate Cake
It works instantly, and when you get addicted, no one will put you in jail for it.
No further explanation about it. . . Ben and Jerry's are women best friends, too.
3. Take a long and nice bath, or body treatment.
Indulge yourself. I used to take a body scrub first, soaping all over my body and get cried while shampooing my hair.
But no one will know that you're crying because you're alone in shower.
Everyone consider your puffy eyes because your eyes get irritated by shampoo.
If you afford to have a luxurious body treatment, you should have, and show the world that you're beautiful and it's your ex loss to not having you now. Revenge is sweet.
4. Earn more money.
Whatever you do for work, do it more, more diligent, put higher target, please your boss.
Bottom line, anything that put your career in a best way, or if its not your career, its for your money.
We, girls, need a lot of money, since we don't have boyfriend who treat us ( at least for a while ).
Or, if you already had a lot of money, still we need it for maintenance our lifestyle, don't we ?
5. Go traveling.
It's one of the best way to meet new people, to spend your money, to learn about another culture, or to get your skin tanned in a natural way. I collected the pictures of my traveling time and put it in blog or Facebook, or whatever, so my ex could see that I am happy, even without him.
6. Socialize with your friends.
Friends are good, but I put it in #6 because you have to spend some time with yourself first, before you hang out with your friends, and please don't hang out with them who had a perfect life, cute kids, good husband etc.
They just will make you feel more miserable ( indirectly of course )
I would suggest you hang out with them who get more complicated problem, the looser, etc, so in the end you would feel better about yourself.
7. Find a new person.
Yes it takes time to healed yourself, and after emotionally exhausted with long, stable relationship, why not trying to find a new person with a less challenge ? I mean, you must be knew some guys are already crush on you for a long time.
Take advantage of them. ( But not too much ) Or you could find a new person you've been dreaming of.
Or find someone who totally different with your ex. Or if your ex hates a metrosexual, stylish guy, you should find someone exactly like that. That's really cool girl...
8. Sexier. Prettier. Smarter.
I mean it. You have to show the world ( and him of course ) that you're not gonna lose because of this.
Buy new sexier clothes. Spent your cash on nice product that works on your skin. ( Remember how your ex used to tell you not to spent too much on unimportant stuffs? Now you don't have to listen to him anymore! )
Read more books about personality, self help, anything you like that can add a value of yourself.
9. Volunteering
Remember that I told you, hang out with the looser make you feel good about yourself ?
Now, its better than that. Get involve in volunteering of nature disaster, save orca or polar bear or whatever, help the poor in the street. The point is give yourself to everyone who less lucky than you.
You will see that your problem's is nothing.
10. Write it in a blog.
Write your feeling, see how's people like it ( or hate it ) , put Google AdSense, so you could earn few bugs from it.
Not such a bad option either.
